Hopefully she learned that when you get a person who truly cares about you, you cant treat him like that. Kiss who you like. hey i think u should give her another chance, i know she hurt u but i think everyone deserves a second chance. Im not telling you to act like a ****, but try to see how much she wants to get back with you. Did you manage to commit to her and forgive her? Right now, youre probably feeling hurt and betrayed by your girlfriend and maybe even a bit angry about the whole situation. She pecked him on the lips and he was paying for her cell phone bill. My girlfriend kissed some older guy that she says was a friend. Again if she was telling you the truth she would not have tried to break up with you in advance of your reaction. At heart, it's your typical fish out of water story, but like I said there's a hook. If thats what your girlfriend did, then its fine to forgive her if you have the emotional strength to do so and you know that she wouldnt ever want to do that again. I she dosent tell you, I think its the right thing to confront her. Only you can make this decision pal but I think if you really love eachother it's worth giving her a final chance. She did something I would never do to her. Naturally, I didn't understand so I probed her and I asked her what happened. I would never be able to trust her again, and I doubt you would either. I just wanted to know how it happened. Which means that if you stay with her, you'll continue to be "second string". Because by telling you her guilt would be assuaged. THEN that night she got drunk and this dude made a move on her and succeeded in kissing her. a clingy, needy guy who would never want to lose her), kissing another guy is also an opportunity for her to speed up the process of breaking up with him. It played on my mind quite a bit and when I went to visit a week later I needed to find out for myself. was it a one-time thing or did it happen frequently? If you decide to trust her and continue on with the relationship, you need to make sure that you dont keep bringing up the kissing mistake with her and turning it into an issue that destroys the relationship. The first time we met (a week ago), I could see it in her eyes that something was wrong. Since then it seemed we were going to work it out and move on and her attitude changed suddenly. My head was so full of thoughts, and I thought about it every single day. But you need to think that all the possibilites lie in your head. She says she's sorry for messing with me and wants to be back together but only if I give her more attention. Take your time on that and don't rush in to making a decision because it's a big deal. What do I do after I find out my girlfriend kissed another guy at a party b My girlfriend kissed her bestfriend ( boy). Even though the relationship with his wife was amazing at the start, it just gets better and better every year that they are together. Inicio; my girlfriend kissed another guy and lied about it; Sin categorizar; my girlfriend kissed another guy and lied about it My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 8 months. But if this is something more than just teenage drama and you feel like this person is the one you're mean to be with, I think you should take the time and look deeper into why she's doing what she's doing. Otherwise you'll appear like someone who can be taken for granted. My girlfriend got drunk and kissed another guy, 2 months later she got drunk and kissed a girl, HELP, Girlfriend kissed another guy after been fighting a lot. She kissed him but she says she just love him like a friend, and that our love cant compare to what they had. To her that would be like you saying you don't care. Then, when I got home that night, my girlfriend asked me how it was. Its been a really tough couple days but I have realised that she made a mistake and was going through a whole lot of **** herself! And NO, she wasnt under the effect of some substance, like alcohol. Man the hell up and ditch the witch. I plan on pulling my **** together now though. So, if you're having relationship problems with your woman and haven't been able to fix them on your own, Dan will show you the way. She says she's sorry it happened but she feels she did not cheat on me. She will feel as though she is wasting time just waiting around for you because she doesnt even know if you are the one for her. Just do what is best for you. You want to believe that your girl is messing around with you because she doesn't want her bf. The dude is a coworker of her's, and when they closed up shop, he asked her if she wanted to hang out. My Girlfriend Met Another Guy in Two Months: Is This a Rebound Relationship? Trust yourself. Everything used to be so easy and wonderful. Most guys dont realize how easy it is to attract women by displaying the personality traits, behaviors and inner qualities that naturally attract women (e.g. But when things start to get difficult again, will she be able to resist any temptation of cheating? It was 3am. She's going to dump you eventually anyway, or cheat on you again. The best way to make her realize that is to make sure that youre not making the classic mistakes that turn a girlfriend off (e.g. Until recently I began to change a lot. Romantic relationships go through their trials and tribulations, just like all relationships throughout life. She claims she drank too much when she was out and lost control. If she had to pick point blank she would pick her bf. She had told him to never talk to her again, but he did. I have quit my job since this all happemed. But I know she loves me but still it was a bad thing to do to me. Please just leave her and don't believe non of her excuses or her trying to blame you. Hank Williams | 14K views, 151 likes, 37 loves, 80 comments, 40 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from Lorraine's Coffee House & Music: Hank Williams, Sr.. confidence, high self-esteem) and turned off by the weakness (e.g. I feel really bad that she has done that because I would never ask her to that but I feel really bad because I'm still not convinced I can move on properly from this. She's usually dead laid back so I just put it down to the pressure of the work she had to put in. I agreed. A Anonymous #1 I broke up with my girlfriend one night in the middle of an argument. One reason guys cheat is that they want out of the relationship, but aren't man enough to just break up, so they cheat in order to have an excuse to get out. She also said she doesnt want to stay with someone who doesnt appreciate her to the point where she looks to other guys for attention. We have spoke about this and she understands but I just want to snap out of this mindset! You cant force your girlfriend to make a decision to only spend time with you, because she is an individual and can ultimately choose to do whatever she wants. Clearly both of them needed to be loved, and because they were so close friends I believe both of them felt sad and it just happened. Anyway when I went to her Grandma house. Of course, on the phone, Skype, Facebook, via text and other forms of communication, she might say that she loves you, misses you and feels like you are the one for her, but that doesnt guarantee that she wont think differently when shes around other guys who are making her feel attracted. It's totally her fault. You can tell her that you are looking for a serious, committed and if she wants that, you are willing to give it to her, but if you notice that she doesnt want that, you and her are simply going to break up and go your separate ways. Disloyal Women Who Kiss Other Men. If your girlfriend kissed another guy because she was extremely drunk and sincerely didnt even know what was happening (e.g. We hung out yesterday and it was AMAZING! I love her so much and I cant see myself with anybody else. Your best bet in a situation like that is to dump her and start hooking up with other women to move on, rather than forgiving her and getting more involved with her (e.g. She is the girl from the tin can city. Johnny, Johnny says he loves her. A cheating woman is the type who will often say, I love you to your face and say things like, I want to be with you forever, and I would never cheat on you, but when shes not around you, she will flirt with other guys, kiss them and even have sex with them without worrying about breaking her promise to you. One more thing! If your girlfriend is the type of woman who doesnt yet feel the need to settle down into a truly committed, lifetime relationship, then shes going to change her mind unless she realizes that you are the man for her. My wife was taking care of her sick mother (this makes it worse). I have always done ok with girls and she's absolutely stunning and got loads of personality so she has always got plenty of attention off other lads. Kissing IS cheating. At this point I duno wtf to do. Question. In passing she mentions that one of her friends kissed her on the cheek. Should i stay? Months of love wasted on trying to make some girl I don't know feel good. So I guess what I am trying to say is that she felt lonely, and couldnt be alone anymore. She doesn't actively want to be with you; she's just afraid to lose you. She decided she would distance herself from them. May 12, 2001. feedback really helps with this situation plz. Make Her Love You For Life: How to make a woman feel sexually attracted, respect you and be totally in love with you when in a relationship. What Should You Do When Your Girlfriend Kissed Another Guy And Told You? The truth is she messing with you because she is selfish and slutty. Once you strongly objected she told you another lie that was closer to the truth, and make the choice to break up. So sometimes I would turn off the phone, dont tell her where I was and just stopped being the nice guy I always have been. There are still times I get sad when I think about what happened, and im still trying to live with it. However, what makes a relationship a relationship is when two individuals make a decision to be together and be committed to each other. Follow What is your opinion? I'll tell you. and now she will continue to do that with a clean conscience! Im just gonna think about me, and take the time I need. You've broken the obsession, and are in the safe space of reality. It was new years night and I blew her off for a week she was begging to see me. Its cute that you think she will eventually leave for you but you are just her selfish pleasure. That's how a relationship is supposed to be. Let her really think of how stupid she was, so she will never to it again. Or should I wait till the day I forgive her? She said she wanted to explain everything, but that she had to talk to me tomorrow because she was so shocked about the fact that I new.